HUSBANDS WHO CHEAT!
Hi everybody! Long time no see. I'm back... unfortunately!
Let the venting begin!!
Four months ago I found out that my husband of 12 years cheated on me with a married woman who got close to him while complaining about....
wait for it...
HER CHEATING HUSBAND!!!
Ain't that a bitch? When he did it I had just had a baby and returned to work struggling with postpartum depression. When I needed him the most he was comforting another woman about how hurt she was that her husband betrayed her. Now here I am standing in this woman's shoes :( Not long after I found out about this, I found out that a $360 cell phone bill that we received just months earlier was due to him talking to a female coworker for hours. Back when I had first confronted him about it (during my pregnancy!) he assured me that the number belonged to a male coworker's wife. He supposedly had to borrow her phone for work because he had broken his (They work out in the field where cells phones are a must). He acted really nervouse and guilty but without proof I couldn't do anything. I had called the number but the girl wouldn't tell me who she was. When I talked to her a couple of months ago she admitted that she was his coworker. She said there was nothing between them and that she only called him for work because he was training her. She had every reason to lie to me because she has 2 kids and lives with her boyfriend. I don't believe him or her.
He blamed me for his cheating and said that I had an attitude. HELLO! POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION! FULL TIME JOB! 4 KIDS! I gave him the boot and now he wants to reconcile. I want him to leave me alone but we have kids together. I am stuck with this bastard for the rest of my life. I just want him to see his kids and leave me alone but he won't. I feel horrible for my kids because they know he cheated. I had to tell them the truth about why he was kicked out. I feel so bad for my babies. Why didn't he think about them? I am so hurt and confused I don't even know how to move forward. The whole thing is unreal.