Disillusioned Parents Out There....
Wow, I have to post a reply to this, and I'm not even gonna justify whether I had fun as a child, in reference to Dee girl's stupid, lame ass, off the wall comment in regards to my Toddlers On The Phone post. And in reference to afz8be's comment...
lol...IT..Hey man, these kids are also my nieces and nephews, and yeah, I will call them "IT", just for the simple fact that if the kid can't act like a human being, then IT won't get treated like a human being. If the kid, or IT is gonna act like a dog, then I'm gonna treat IT like a dog. If IT is gonna act like a retard, then I'm gonna treat IT like a retard!! Now you get over it, and if ya don't like me referring to a kid as an IT, then don't read my sh*t! There's a golden rule you can follow, for yourself, because not all kids are cute, and they are actually indeed, "IT's"
I totally understand that it isn't the kids fault, and that it very much is the parents fault; but, understand this, if a parent can't control their kid, while in my presence, and ESPECIALLY if that kid is in MY home..oh.....watch out, because YOUR kid will be abiding by MY rules, in MY home..get it? And if any parent has a problem with that, even if it's my siblings and their children..then get the f*ck outta my house!! It's called RESPECT for other people's property, and homes. Just because some parent(s) let their kid(s) act like a f*ckin' retard(s) in their home, doesn't mean I have to tolerate their kid(s) actin' like a f*ckin' retard(s) in MY home. And in all actuality, because you can't control your kid, if it is in MY home, and you neglect to discipline the thing, in all actuality, on your behalf, you are now, in a sense, disrespecting MY home..get it? So are you telling me that you don't or refuse to respect other people's sh*t? Because now I'm offended!!
Here's the gist of it all, in which my initial blog, Toddlers On The Phone, was about..alright?
One thing that I don't agree with is this: I didn't bring the problems into the world and therefore shouldn't have to entertain your problems, because I'm not ITS parent - ESPECIALLY when I might have called you, AND the call is long distance..alright??? I don't wanna hear your kid dribble over the phone, AND a phone IS NOT A TOY..that's the difference. Sure, I don't care if a kid is being a kid..but not over a phone, because a phone, is not a f*ckin' toy - and that's where parents need to grow the f*ck up!! Get it??? Gad..I hate moron posters like Dee girl!
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Well, hey, if the kid's in ...
Well, hey, if the kid's in your house let the kid know what's expected of him. It's your house and junior should abide by your house rules when he's there.
I agree w/ your point of ...
I agree w/ your point of view. kids should be taught to behave and respect other ppl's properties, etc. when they're at another person's home.
Know what my pet peeve is? It's when ppl continually complain about something constantly and not do anything about it. Maybe if you actually rephrased what you said here more nicely to your siblings (instead of dedicating this post to those 2 who probably will just laugh this off), then you wouldn't be so fed up and have to put up w/ anymore kids on the phone problems.
My pet peeve is when ...
My pet peeve is when people get upset at someone over the internet! God, can't aznxcutey5752 and hotstud4u1987 get along?
disturbing - are you a ...
disturbing - are you a nazi?
haha I'll have to go along with inertiaticsp on this one. It's just a fun online forum, get out your frustrations about a situation, but don't let someone else's post get you angry. You must be a very negative person, and being around negative people is my pet peeve! : P
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Here Here, Disturbing!!!
Here Here, Disturbing!!!
1) I'm not a parent. I ...
1) I'm not a parent. I have cervical cancer and am about to have surgery that will prevent me from ever bearing my own, but thanks for the assumption
2) I was kidding around. I don't know or care if you're a negative person. I hope you're happy whoever you are and wherever you are (not being sarcastic) and understand that everyone has different things that irk them. Sorry that you took that personally, I didn't mean to offend and am really not that kind of person. Cheers.
Disturbing, Don't be ...
Disturbing,
Don't be sorry to hear about my health, no appologies neccessary, but thank you for the compassion. I understand what you're saying about not wanting to bring children into this world. My partner and I will be moving out of the city when the time comes that we adopt, no way would I expose children to the things he and I were both exposed to at young ages in a large city. We won't be able to eliminate all hazards obviously, no generation ever has, but want to raise kids in the safest environment we are able to provide. "Future generations will think we are total barbarians." I'm stealing that quote from the new documentary "Shark Water" but it does apply to more than just the practice of shark finning. They are going to see that "we" were completely money hungry and didn't care about ruining the air, the sea, the land, the animals, and each other. I'm already embarassed to have to answer the inevitable "whys" that will come from my grandchildren about our generation and the decisions we are making today. I'll do my damndest to raise children with morals and principles; I don't expect it to be easy but I can completely empathize with your decision not to bear children. Between the two of us we have filled a lot of this page with posts, haha. Have a good one!
(btw - I agree with your original post. Children misbehaving sometimes can't be helped but how a parent decides to react and discipline can. Laughing at it or thinking it's cute is NOT okay. Just thought I'd let you know I was on your side all along.) ;-)
disturbing..I understand ...
disturbing..I understand how you felt with the mom not listening to you. We live in a rural part of Texas and just about everyone "in these parts" has a gun or two. We keep a shotgun in our bedroom, in our closet. Our kids are allowed in our room, but not our closet. Other kids they bring over are not allowed in our bedroom. We have a friend that comes over to use our internet every now and again, and always brings her kid. Only her child won't go into my kids rooms and play with their toys, he wants to go through my room! I finally had to ask her to leave, because she would not get the point about I didn't want him in my room and closet...So when I pull out the gun to show her why, she gets mad at me!! I shouldn't have to show you what will hurt your child, control him, and keep him out of my stuff!